Tuesday, April 22, 2008
Tuesday, April 15, 2008
ANGER
Mark twain once said “In certain trying circumstances, urgent circumstances, desperate circumstances, profanity furnishes a relief denied even to prayer.”
I agree. When you are angry let it out. If you don’t, it begins to breed with you and starts to fester.
Do not carry a grudge.A grudge knows only one form of mathematics. Exponetial multiplication.
But. When and where do you take out your anger. Think of anger like electricity. Don’t let it conduct. Take it out in the absence of other media or in the presence of insulators.
Ok did I just sound like I have lost in the last para? Well. I haven’t.Take it from personal experience that the above said words will save you and the people around you a lot of grief.
Anger is a very personal thing. Cause unlike happiness , we don’t WANT to be angry. Yet it keeps emerging out of from within us. Now if you just let it out when no one is around then you are definitely better off than holding a grudge, but you will not have any feedback.You will not know what to do to either avoid such circumstances again or even If the anger was justified in the first place or not.
So now the next logical step would be to have a wall to bounce off your anger.But be careful.There are some people around whom you should never show your anger. Cause they cannot handle it. They will either try to change the subject, try to undermine the cause for the anger or try to say stuff like its never wise to get angry. What do they know! Stay away they are the ones with volcanoes inside them.
But there are some sounding boards who will know the person you are. They will stop you if you are not in the right and give you another perspective .And If you ARE right then you again have adivse on how to avoid it in future.Be happy with the few sounding boards that you can get. Do NOT try to make everyone a wall to beat your head against.
Some will crack, some will make you bleed.
I agree. When you are angry let it out. If you don’t, it begins to breed with you and starts to fester.
Do not carry a grudge.A grudge knows only one form of mathematics. Exponetial multiplication.
But. When and where do you take out your anger. Think of anger like electricity. Don’t let it conduct. Take it out in the absence of other media or in the presence of insulators.
Ok did I just sound like I have lost in the last para? Well. I haven’t.Take it from personal experience that the above said words will save you and the people around you a lot of grief.
Anger is a very personal thing. Cause unlike happiness , we don’t WANT to be angry. Yet it keeps emerging out of from within us. Now if you just let it out when no one is around then you are definitely better off than holding a grudge, but you will not have any feedback.You will not know what to do to either avoid such circumstances again or even If the anger was justified in the first place or not.
So now the next logical step would be to have a wall to bounce off your anger.But be careful.There are some people around whom you should never show your anger. Cause they cannot handle it. They will either try to change the subject, try to undermine the cause for the anger or try to say stuff like its never wise to get angry. What do they know! Stay away they are the ones with volcanoes inside them.
But there are some sounding boards who will know the person you are. They will stop you if you are not in the right and give you another perspective .And If you ARE right then you again have adivse on how to avoid it in future.Be happy with the few sounding boards that you can get. Do NOT try to make everyone a wall to beat your head against.
Some will crack, some will make you bleed.
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